My family has been arguing alot lately. It's stupid. I'm having a hard time knowing how to deal with this all. If you guys have any good advice please comment below. This is my rant story if any one cares to read.
Mondays really do suck. Or today was just one of those days. Ugh. I woke up today and I was actually feeling pretty fantastic. I went to the gym and came home feeling good. Surprisingly good at that. Even my dad noticed and commented that I should be in a happy mood more often, and I totally agreed. Then for some reason, I feel like he felt the need to just crash and burn down that mood. Before going to school, I ate breakfast and then went to take my dog out since she is usually in my room since my mom always locks her up in there. She was just kinda hyper and walking around the house alot. Before I took her out, I realized that I really needed to do something before i took her out, which would only have taken about 5 minutes. My mom, not wanting to be around Cookie, my dog, started yelling at her to go to her room. Cookie wouldn't listen because she really wanted to go outside. My mom got pissed and because my mom was pissed, my dad kicked my dog with such force that, obviously, she yelped, and literally spun out. I got mad and demanded to know why he kicked her. My dad tried to justify himself that she wasn't listening to my mom and that he would do it "again and again" if he had to. We continued to argue and it died down after a while. Then, my mom being in a bad mood decided we (me and my sister) didn't deserve a ride to school. Ticked, my dad took us to school. On our way to school, my mom called my dad saying that Mel (my sister) had forgotten to take a picture to school. My dad then went on to say that she was lazy, that she was an idiot, asking if she was just going to school to get stupider, and that she was going nowhere in life because she was lazy. All. Because. Of. A. Goddamn. Photo. This hurt me as much as it pissed me off that he would intentionally hurt her like this. Yes, 14 years old is old enough to know better than to forget a photo, but come on. A PHOTO. I yelled at him, and left without saying good bye and now I feel like such a disrespectful person for behaving that way. Today was just not our day at all.
Lily, in my opinion I feel like everyone goes through all this. There comes a time in which your parents just don't stop arguing and you feel as if they have been for about a hmmm year, but if you think about it it's you exaggerating. I have learned to just ignore it all, and seriously it makes your life a lot easier :) About the whole Melina thing I seriously think that parents have bad days, just like us , although we wish they didn't. They have harsh times, and they have there ups and downs like we do as well. It's just we never seem to understand that they are human beings as well, so maybe your mom and dad were having a bad morning, but you getting all mad over it makes your day get worse than it already was, and ruins your day completely. So I suggest that next time just agree to what they say, and by the time you get home I'm sure they will realize that what they said was wrong. I hope this some how helps you :)
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